Welcome to Coffee Talk! Let’s start off the day by discussing whatever is on your (nerd chic) mind. Every morning I’ll kick off a discussion and I’m counting on you to participate in it. If you’re not feelin’ my topic, feel free to start a chat with your fellow readers and see where it takes you. Whether you’re talking about videogames, the brilliance of Chris Jericho, Mark McGwire’s return to baseball, or how important it is to cherish your loved ones while you still have time, Coffee Talk is the place to do it.
Today’s Coffee Talk is going to be a little different — it’s not going to be on gaming and it’s going to be a little more personal than usual. You see, on Sunday, I lost a dear friend to cancer. This is one of the most heartbreaking experiences of my life. I’m so sad that I won’t be able to talk to her, hear her laugh, travel with her, go to the boxing gym with her, or share a drink at our favorite coffeehouse. I’m trying to focus on all the wonderful things she brought to my life and remember all the excellent times we had. Two of the things that are helping me do this are Facebook and Twitter.
I know a lot of you hate one or both of these social networking services. That just seems silly to me. They’re tools. They’re as useful (or not) as you let them be. Facebook and Twitter have been amazing for helping me deal with the loss of Rannie. I’m happy to read people’s stories about her, see photos they’ve snapped of her over the years, and see people celebrating her life. Friends from all over America, Japan, Thailand, and several other countries have shared their thoughts on Rannie. These people have been using Facebook and Twitter in a beautiful way.
Sure, a lot of everyday tweets and status updates consist of people telling you what they had for lunch, someone claiming they have a brilliant article to share with you when it’s really a Rick roll, and other nonsense. That’s just people using these tools for frivolity, which is totally fine, but they can also be used for much more. You can use the same hammer to hilariously stub your friend’s toe or help build a house for a homeless family. Like Eric Clapton said, “It’s in the way that you use it.”
So I guess I’m asking and telling you a few things today. What are some useful ways that you use Facebook and Twitter? What do you think is missing from today’s social networking services? Most importantly, try to remember who and what is important to you, and cherish all of it, because life is short.